Who else is getting ready for their first (or next) psychic reading? Are you worried about what to say? What NOT to say? How much information is too much……or too little? In this article we are going to take a quick and insightful look at how to talk to a psychic properly during your NEXT reading….and how to make sure you get the absolute most AUTHENTIC experience with your reader as a result.

Filed Under: Less is More!

The biggest problem I see most people experience when getting a reading is this: They simply SAY too much. They reveal all of their fears, worries and concerns BEFORE the reading even really "begins". The truth is, the fastest way to pollute an accurate reading is by telling the intuitive far more than they need to give you a good reading. And when you do this, it can actually be totally counterproductive……as you are filling THEIR heads with "stuff".

And I can tell you after close to 20 years of experiences with psychics, even the BEST readers will get "off kilter" if you start a reading with a brain dump of all of your problems, fears and worries before they even have a chance to say hello..:-)

Filed Under: Follow THEIR Lead

Or said differently, some psychics like ONLY "yes or no" answers. Others like (and do very well with) a wee bit of elaboration from you. But you shouldn’t have to say TOO much…and to be totally honest with you, a good psychic reading is usually one where you say a lot LESS than the psychic themselves. Remember….a good psychic reading should NOT feel like psychotherapy where you are doing all of the talking..:-)

It should be a fun, engaging and OPEN exchange of information and energy….but where for the MOST part, you are listening and they are illuminating the insight or information that they see!

Lastly….if you go in person, avoid too much body language "tells" as well. The truth is, many cold readers use body language as a dead simple way to pick up clues they don’t need to be psychic to "see". For this reason, I personally prefer phone readings….or just make sure you are conscious about your body language, especially if you are really expressive with your mannerisms like me!